Planning Your Dream Whale Watching Adventure
In this episode, David shares his recent bucket list adventure to the Head of the Bight in South Australia, where he and his wife Tammy experienced the magnificent southern right whales in their natural nursery. This wasn't just a holiday—it was the fulfilment of a long-held bucket list dream that required careful planning, financial preparation, and a commitment to fully disconnecting from work.
David reveals:
- How to financially prepare for significant bucket list adventures without stress
- Why the journey itself is just as important as the destination
- Practical strategies for disconnecting from work to fully enjoy your experiences
- The importance of budgeting for unexpected opportunities during your adventures
Quotes from the Episode
"It was important that we broke that trip up as much as possible... finding destinations along the way that had points of interest for us was important."
"I've made that conscious decision to enjoy my holidays and my breaks. I've found it a lot easier to switch off and then when I get back, just switch back on again."
"We had a really good idea of how much the trip was going to cost... and then to have money aside for unexpected things that popped up along the way."
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Key Moments
00:40 David's Whale Watching Experience
03:16 Planning the Journey
08:00 Switching Off and Enjoying the Holiday
11:58 Financial Planning for Bucket List Trips
17:43 Reflecting on the Experience
19:12 Conclusion
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Transcript
Planning your dream whale, watching adventure.
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:Join the bucket list accountant
himself, David Patterson.
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:As we discuss planning and experiencing
bucket list travel adventures.
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:Learn how to financially
prepare for your dream trips.
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:Discover strategies to disconnect
from work and fully enjoy the
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:experience and gain insights on
budgeting for expected and unexpected
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:opportunities along the way.
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:This episode provides practical steps
to make your bucket list adventures
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:both achievable and memorable.
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:I'm your co-host Anthony Perl.
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:Let's get into making
your bucket list happen.
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:Well, David, and it's great to be
back picking up the podcast after
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:a little break and it's the break
that we're going to talk about.
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:David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.
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:It's great to be back to do
the next session, Anthony.
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:Looking forward to it.
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:Anthony Perl: I think this is important
for everyone listing you've been
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:living the bucket list dream because
you've ticked one off the list and
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:we're going to talk a little bit about
that whole process of getting on your
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:list in the first place, but then more
importantly, living that actual dream.
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:David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.
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:So, mid-July, my wife and I
headed off on our holiday.
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:We went to the head of the Bite in
South Australia, which is a, a really
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:sort of well known whale nursery.
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:My wife Tammy's a whale.
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:Enthusiast, I've been calling
her a wild nata, which I need to
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:apologize to her at some stage.
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:Someone pointed out to me,
enthusiast is a much better word.
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:So I'm trying to build
that in whenever I can.
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:You're doing it
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:Anthony Perl: publicly
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:David Patterson: now, so
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:Anthony Perl: all is forgive.
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:David Patterson: Yes, absolutely.
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:Absolutely.
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:So she's been a whale enthusiast
probably since about:
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:where we live in Warrnambool.
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:There's a whale nursery here as well.
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:So she's got right into it.
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:So this holiday was probably more a
bucket list item for her, but because
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:of her enthusiasm and, and it's, it's
a place I've always wanted to go.
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:So we hit it off to the head of the bite.
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:Which is about two hours east
of the western Australian,
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:south Australian border.
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:And we did that in the first
couple of weeks in July.
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:And we got to experience the whales
over there, which I think when we
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:were there, there were 30 to 40
whales at the head of the bite.
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:We were able to do a, a plane flight
over the top so we could see the cliffs
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:and the sand dunes and the whales,
and it was absolutely spectacular.
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:Whilst I'm not as keen on the whales
as what Tammy is, the fact that
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:there were so many there and the
destination we're at, I found myself
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:sitting there for quite a few hours.
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:Just watching them and observing
was a, it was a great trip.
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:Anthony Perl: I can imagine I,
every time I hear about whales, I
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:just think of the Seinfeld episode.
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:Um, so for those that are in Seinfeld
enthusiasts, you'll know exactly what
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:I'm talking about with George plucking
the Titleless golf ball out of the whale.
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:But, uh, I'm sure you didn't get it, that
opportunity, I'm sure you weren't firing
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:golf balls often to the ocean and nor
standing quite that close to them either.
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:David Patterson: No, but it's the
one thing because of the sheer
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:cliff faces that are there where
you stand and, and watch them.
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:It almost felt like they were
only like 30 or 40 meters away.
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:They were, they came up really, really
close and it was a really good opportunity
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:to sort of observe how they interact and,
and at the same time, it was ticking one
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:of our bucket list holidays off the list.
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:So that just made a little bit
more special, I think, too.
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:Anthony Perl: Well, I wanna get
into some details of it all.
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:I'm keen to hear about it all in
the context of the bucket list, but
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:I have to ask one question as well.
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:You know, you're standing there and
looking, as you say, it feels like
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:they're only a short distance away.
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:Do you get a concept of how big
and amazing these creatures are?
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:David Patterson: Big and
amazing and, and just graceful.
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:Like they're not fast movers through the
water, but they just sort of, they're
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:in their environment and they're looking
after their calves at the same time.
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:And to see that nurturing is probably
not the right word, but they're
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:very protective of them and the
playfulness of the calves so close
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:when they breach and all of the, like,
it's, it's something about whale.
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:I think it's, you know, whales and
dolphin and marine life in general.
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:It's really special when you can
get up close to them like that.
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:Even when you're not as enthusiastic as
your wife might be, it's still a really
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:special moment to be that close to them.
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:Anthony Perl: I think what's really
interesting here is that, you know,
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:firstly, you talk about the enthusiasm
of your wife versus your own, but
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:then you know, that's the great thing
about any relationship, isn't it?
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:The enthusiasm of one can rub
off on the other, and it's an
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:important thing to acknowledge
when you're creating a bucket list.
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:David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.
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:As a couple, we certainly have mutual
interests, but we've also got sort of
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:separate interests that we both have.
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:And I mean, for me, I'd always,
well, when I say always, probably
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:for the last 10 years have wanted
to get to the head of the bite.
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:Just for me, it seems like an
iconic little part of Australia.
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:And so when.
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:Tammy kind of put the proposal to me
to say, Hey, how about we do this trip?
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:'cause it's a lot of driving from
Warrnambool to the head of the bite, but
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:it's the only way to really get there.
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:So when she suggested Let's do it,
it was kinda like, yeah, absolutely.
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:You know, it was, initially I thought
of it more of as a holiday for her, but
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:as we started to plan it and book in
and have destinations along the way and
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:destinations back, I mean, I've got as
much enjoyment out of it as she did.
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:No doubt.
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:But it did take some planning too.
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:You know, like I said, it's a long
trip, so we had to make sure that
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:there were destinations along the way
that we could stop at that and some
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:attractions that we wanted to look at.
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:So it wasn't a case of just
packing up the car and heading off.
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:We certainly had a plan in mind where we
wanted to go and, and everything else.
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:I
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:Anthony Perl: think it's something that
people forget about when they're planning
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:these sorts of things, is that it is
not just about the final destination.
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:It is about the journey there and
the journey that begins in the
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:planning phase, not just in the
actual, okay, we've got now, got
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:the car packed and we're on our way.
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:David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.
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:And credit to Tammy, she did most
of the work on the itinerary, I
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:guess, as to where we were going.
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:But when you sit back and go,
let's go to the head of the buyer.
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:That's great.
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:I think it was about 1900 kilometers to
get there, and then:
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:So it was important that we broke
that trip up as much as possible.
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:So finding destinations along the
way that had points of interest
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:for us as well was important.
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:That took some planning and seeing where
things were and breaking up the trip so
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:that we weren't sort of worn out by the
time we got to where we were going, and
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:we got to see some stuff that we probably
didn't know existed along the way.
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:So I think there was a, a windmill.
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:You see him in one spot, which.
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:I'd never heard of before and just,
yeah, just to experience the different
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:scenery as well was pretty awesome.
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:Anthony Perl: And it's interesting when
talk about that experience of:
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:Ks there and back, because that can
be daunting and you can be thinking
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:about, oh, I just wanna get there.
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:And it's a bit like the flights
when you are going overseas, right?
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:Particularly if you're going to Europe.
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:It's a long time in the plane.
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:How do you make the most of that
as part of it and, and make that
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:part of the bucket list enjoyment,
not just, oh no, we've gotta sit
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:in the car for how many hours?
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:I don't know how many hours of
driving:
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:David Patterson: It was a lot.
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:And I, you know, I've spoken to a
few people about the trip and some
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:people can, you know, drive for 11
hours in a day and get there a lot
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:quicker than what, what we did.
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:But it was just as important
for us to enjoy the.
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:Journey as it was to
enjoy the destination.
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:So, you know, we could have missed
a few sites that we saw that if we
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:had to just put our head down and
driven, we would've missed out on.
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:So, and just staying in different places
and different, experiencing different
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:sort of areas, I think is just as
important as getting to where you want
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:to get to and, and doing that part of it.
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:And then just getting home again.
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:I mean, the driving along there is long,
straight roads with the, the scenery
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:changes a little bit, but it stays fairly
similar the, the whole way through.
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:But at no point.
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:Was I finding myself weary or just
wishing to get to where I was getting to
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:was, was a matter of just enjoying the
what was around us and the difference
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:to where we are and what we've got.
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:So there was plenty of things
to see and do along the way.
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:Anthony Perl: Yeah, I think it isn't it,
it's when you make that decision that you
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:are having a holiday, make it something
where you can switch off and enjoy that.
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:Part of the great thing about driving.
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:Is that you don't have
time to worry about work.
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:I mean, you know, yes.
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:You could potentially get a phone call.
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:Yeah.
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:But it's not that easy
when you're driving.
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:So particularly when you're driving
somewhere that you've never been before
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:and that you're wanting to take in and
absorb the scenery along the way and plan
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:where the next stop is for, you know,
even if it's just to get some lunch.
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:Yep.
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:That's part of the enjoyment of it all.
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:And so I think that's an important aspect,
isn't it, of when you are creating, you
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:know, a holiday as part of the bucket
list is you gotta make sure you can switch
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:off, even if it means forcing yourself
to do it because you're in a car driving
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:David Patterson: a hundred percent.
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:I think the switching off is
really important to, to enable you
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:to sort of be in, in the holiday
and just enjoying the holiday.
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:And you're right.
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:I was receiving a few phone calls
along the way, but I made a conscious
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:decision not to answer calls as I was
driving along because, well, well, I
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:was on holidays, so my message when
they went through to voicemail was set
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:up so that they knew I was on holidays.
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:I had all my sort of my email set up
so that when they sent an email, the
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:response went back that I was on holidays.
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:So I'd set everything up.
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:That allowed people to understand that
while I didn't take their call, the
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:reason I didn't take their call or answer
their email immediately was because I was
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:on holidays and really wanted to enjoy
the fact that I was on holidays, the
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:early days of running my own business.
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:It would take me several days to
kind of wind into a holiday because
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:I was sort of still stressing about
this and the other thing, and taking
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:phone calls and answering emails.
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:So I've made a conscious decision last
year in September, we went to Vietnam
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:and it was a conscious decision.
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:Again, I'd set everything up properly,
but my thing now is that if I'm going on
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:holidays, I'm going to be on holidays.
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:There might be some, a couple of
emergencies that pop up, but on the whole.
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:Probably 98% of phone calls and emails
can wait for a week or two weeks.
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:You know, it's not the end of the world.
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:So since I've made that kind of
conscious decision to enjoy my holidays
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:and my breaks, I've found it a lot
easier to switch off, and then when I
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:get back, just switch back on again.
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:So it's just allowed for a greater sense
of holiday, you know, so I'm not using
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:the first two days to unwind and then the
last two days to sort of gear up again.
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:I'm, I'm using the
whole period of time to.
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:On the holiday.
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:Now, back to the program.
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:If you go to the effort of creating
a bucket list, whether it's a
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:holiday over a few weeks, or whether
it's a, you know, a simple event.
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:I know you, for example, you climbed
the Harbor Bridge as one of your
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:bucket list things that we've talked
about before, and that might just
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:be something that takes a few hours,
but you wanna be in that moment.
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:You don't.
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:Want it to be to outside influences,
to take away from that enjoyment
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:of something you've worked towards.
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:David Patterson: A hundred percent.
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:And I, the, the Harbor Bridge climb in
particular, I actually put my phone onto
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:airplane mode so that I couldn't get
disturbed while I was doing the walking.
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:It, it certainly allowed me just
then to enjoy the climb, enjoy
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:the scenery, and just sort of.
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:Be present for the whole thing
without, you know, worrying about
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:my phone buzzing in my pocket, or
out taking a photo and having a text
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:message pop up or anything like that.
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:It, it literally allowed me to just
really enjoy those two hours and then,
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:you know, deal with, once you get back
off the bridge, take it off airplane mode
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:and whatever's popped up, you can then
deal with it at time that's convenient
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:for you, not the other way around.
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:I
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:Anthony Perl: wanna also ask
you about the planning phase for
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:doing something like this trip.
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:There's a lot of things to take
into consideration in terms of
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:the financial aspect of it, right?
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:It's, it's one thing, planning all of
the, the destinations, but there's.
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:I imagine in a trip like this, there's
costs of maintenance for the car and
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:making sure that you've, you know,
doing all the checks and balances before
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:you head off on a journey like that.
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:There's the petrol costs,
there's food costs along the way.
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:There's accommodation costs along the way.
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:Then there's.
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:Tours and things and stuff that you
think, well, you didn't, you know,
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:there's an unplanned element, isn't there?
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:Because there's always something that
pops up and go, oh, I didn't know
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:we could do this, so let's do this.
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:Yeah.
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:You know?
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:And that feeds into it as well.
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:So there's quite a bit of planning that
needs to be involved in making sure that
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:the experience that you're going to have
on something that you have put on a bucket
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:list is going to be able to be fulfilled
with as maximum capacity as you can have.
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:David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.
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:And especially I guess on a triplo
we've just done where there's,
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:there's a lot of nothing that's in
between stops in a lot of cases.
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:So, you know, and you arrive
the cost of the cost of diesel,
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:uh, as you're driving along.
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:And a couple of times I've just had
to close my eyes and wait till it was
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:filled and then just go and pay because
it just sort of, the numbers scare you
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:a little bit, but, but it's all part
of the holiday, like you're saying.
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:So we kind of mapped out early
on where we wanted to go.
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:And got a feel for how
much accommodation was.
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:And we did have to plan
for things like food.
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:We stayed at a place called Fowlers Bay,
which is pretty isolated in those shops.
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:I think it's got a population
of 16 permanent residents.
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:So we had to get food and have the ability
to store it for four or five hours as
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:we were getting to there from the place
where we picked up the, the food, we
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:had the plan where we would stop for.
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:Diesel so that we didn't
run out partway through.
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:So we had a really good idea of how much
the trip was going to cost, and we had
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:a good idea of that relatively early
so that, again, we're allowed to sort
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:of put money aside to cover all that.
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:And then to have money aside for
a couple of unexpected things
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:that popped up along the way.
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:We did a little 45 minute plane flight
when we were at the head of the bike,
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:which we didn't know was an option.
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:Um, I think we discovered that as, as
we were driving to the destination, but
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:we'd factored in a little, a little.
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:Pool of money for unexpected
events that we could do so.
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:So we were able to take that 45 minute
fight without worrying about really
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:worrying about how much it was going
to cost and just be able to enjoy it.
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:So it just makes the trip as
an accountant from a financials
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:perspective, a lot less stressful
because you know, before you head off
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:that you've got everything covered.
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:Anthony Perl: It is nothing worse
than being in a moment in a holiday
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:and seeing something that you really
want to do and then realizing,
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:Hmm, we didn't plan for this.
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:What Yeah.
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:You know, is So planning for the
unexpected is an important aspect of it.
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:David Patterson: It is.
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:You know, I think in the past
for us, we've had on a trip
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:something that's popped up that's
unexpected, like the flight, but
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:we haven't factored it in before.
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:So.
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:There's an element of crikey that's
costing a lot, can we afford it?
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:Then doing it, but then while you're
doing it, you're still kind of
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:stressing about how much it costs.
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:So it takes away an element of the
enjoyment of the actual experience.
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:Whereas this time and the trip to
Vietnam as well, you know, we kind
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:of had this bucket of money that
we'd set aside for unexpected events,
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:which then meant you could just do it.
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:And enjoy it and not worry about the cost.
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:You could just get in and enjoy it
and be part of it for the whole time.
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:It just makes it more enjoyable.
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:Anthony Perl: A message as well for
people listening is that you should be
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:turning to someone like David to plan
these kinds of things and to realize
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:that there are things like that, that you
know, you want to make sure that you're
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:planning for the unplanned and you've
accommodated everything along the way
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:so that you can achieve the bucket list
item and do it with maximum enjoyment.
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:Make it something that you are talking
actively to your accountant about.
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:David Patterson: Absolutely.
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:And, and having a feel for the
types of things that you want to do.
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:I mean, I've got a chalkboard in behind
me here, and it's, it's got our next four
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:holiday destinations mapped out and the
times and dates that we want to take them.
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:So, you know, we're starting to plan
well in advance because a couple of
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:the trips are, um, fairly expensive,
but we're giving ourselves plenty
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:of time to do some research on.
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:How much it's going to cost, what
time of year we want to take it so
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:that we can maximize the enjoyment
of the trip, but also give us plenty
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:of time to be able to save for it.
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:So, you know, we've set up a,
a separate holiday bank account
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:and so money's going there every
week to build up for these trips.
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:And then it's also gives us plenty
of time for sort of impromptu trips
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:along the way if something pops up.
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:But what it's doing is it's giving
us a really clear direction of.
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:Where we want to go and what it's
going to take for us to get there
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:and enough time to put steps in
place that allow us to do it.
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:Anthony Perl: I love as well that
you've got it on the chalkboard and
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:it doesn't mean you're rub it off
as soon as you've achieved one of
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:the things, because you wanna bask
in that glory for some time to come.
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:David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.
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:So the head of the bite's
up there and it's ticked.
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:I haven't sort of made a decision
on when it's going to come off yet.
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:You know, every morning when
you've come into the office
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:and see that you've done it.
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:It just puts smile on your face every day
when I'm popping in at the minute to work.
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:So it'll probably stay
there for a little while.
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:Anthony Perl: Now, just to wrap
up this discussion, there's one
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:important thing that I have to ask.
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:1900 Ks there and back.
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:Lots of time in the car.
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:What's on the playlist?
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:David Patterson: What's on the play?
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:Well, that's an interesting,
we didn't have anything.
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:We didn't play radio.
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:We didn't play music.
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:There was four of us in the car
and there was just no music at all.
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:If there was large moments of silence,
um, the people in the back kind of
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:had to put their own kind of music on.
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:I did all the driving, which was a
conscious decision 'cause it gave
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:me much more leg room and space.
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:But it was just about taking in
the scenery and the destination.
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:So normally we would music on
the radio on all the time, you
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:know, driving to Melbourne.
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:But it just kind of felt right that we
didn't have anything and we were just
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:sort of seeing what was around us.
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:Anthony Perl: Truth is David, the
kids in the back, they were listening
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:to the Bucket List Accountants
podcast on repeat continuously.
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:Right.
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:David Patterson: Well, that's, no, I guess
that's, that's what it should have been.
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:Yeah.
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:Maybe, maybe from next trip to, uh, Japan
next year, I might grab 'em all and put
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:'em on a loop and, and get Tammy to listen
to them all as we're traveling around.
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:Anthony Perl: Well in that case, if
you are listing in Tammy to this one,
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:very nice to have shared a bit of the
memory of this particular trip and
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:I hope you're enjoying the next one.
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:So, David, thanks for this.
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:I think it was a great insight into
this particular holiday and what ticking
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:off a bucket list item is all about.
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:David Patterson: Brilliant.
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:Thanks for allowing me to share too.
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