Episode 22

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Published on:

20th Aug 2025

Planning Your Dream Whale Watching Adventure

In this episode, David shares his recent bucket list adventure to the Head of the Bight in South Australia, where he and his wife Tammy experienced the magnificent southern right whales in their natural nursery. This wasn't just a holiday—it was the fulfilment of a long-held bucket list dream that required careful planning, financial preparation, and a commitment to fully disconnecting from work.

David reveals:

  • How to financially prepare for significant bucket list adventures without stress
  • Why the journey itself is just as important as the destination
  • Practical strategies for disconnecting from work to fully enjoy your experiences
  • The importance of budgeting for unexpected opportunities during your adventures

Quotes from the Episode

"It was important that we broke that trip up as much as possible... finding destinations along the way that had points of interest for us was important."

"I've made that conscious decision to enjoy my holidays and my breaks. I've found it a lot easier to switch off and then when I get back, just switch back on again."

"We had a really good idea of how much the trip was going to cost... and then to have money aside for unexpected things that popped up along the way."

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Key Moments

00:40 David's Whale Watching Experience

03:16 Planning the Journey

08:00 Switching Off and Enjoying the Holiday

11:58 Financial Planning for Bucket List Trips

17:43 Reflecting on the Experience

19:12 Conclusion

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Co-host: Anthony Perl

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Transcript
Anthony Perl:

Planning your dream whale, watching adventure.

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Join the bucket list accountant

himself, David Patterson.

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As we discuss planning and experiencing

bucket list travel adventures.

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Learn how to financially

prepare for your dream trips.

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Discover strategies to disconnect

from work and fully enjoy the

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experience and gain insights on

budgeting for expected and unexpected

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opportunities along the way.

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This episode provides practical steps

to make your bucket list adventures

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both achievable and memorable.

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I'm your co-host Anthony Perl.

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Let's get into making

your bucket list happen.

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Well, David, and it's great to be

back picking up the podcast after

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a little break and it's the break

that we're going to talk about.

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David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.

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It's great to be back to do

the next session, Anthony.

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Looking forward to it.

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Anthony Perl: I think this is important

for everyone listing you've been

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living the bucket list dream because

you've ticked one off the list and

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we're going to talk a little bit about

that whole process of getting on your

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list in the first place, but then more

importantly, living that actual dream.

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David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.

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So, mid-July, my wife and I

headed off on our holiday.

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We went to the head of the Bite in

South Australia, which is a, a really

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sort of well known whale nursery.

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My wife Tammy's a whale.

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Enthusiast, I've been calling

her a wild nata, which I need to

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apologize to her at some stage.

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Someone pointed out to me,

enthusiast is a much better word.

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So I'm trying to build

that in whenever I can.

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You're doing it

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Anthony Perl: publicly

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David Patterson: now, so

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Anthony Perl: all is forgive.

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David Patterson: Yes, absolutely.

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Absolutely.

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So she's been a whale enthusiast

probably since about:

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where we live in Warrnambool.

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There's a whale nursery here as well.

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So she's got right into it.

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So this holiday was probably more a

bucket list item for her, but because

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of her enthusiasm and, and it's, it's

a place I've always wanted to go.

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So we hit it off to the head of the bite.

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Which is about two hours east

of the western Australian,

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south Australian border.

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And we did that in the first

couple of weeks in July.

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And we got to experience the whales

over there, which I think when we

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were there, there were 30 to 40

whales at the head of the bite.

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We were able to do a, a plane flight

over the top so we could see the cliffs

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and the sand dunes and the whales,

and it was absolutely spectacular.

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Whilst I'm not as keen on the whales

as what Tammy is, the fact that

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there were so many there and the

destination we're at, I found myself

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sitting there for quite a few hours.

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Just watching them and observing

was a, it was a great trip.

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Anthony Perl: I can imagine I,

every time I hear about whales, I

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just think of the Seinfeld episode.

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Um, so for those that are in Seinfeld

enthusiasts, you'll know exactly what

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I'm talking about with George plucking

the Titleless golf ball out of the whale.

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But, uh, I'm sure you didn't get it, that

opportunity, I'm sure you weren't firing

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golf balls often to the ocean and nor

standing quite that close to them either.

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David Patterson: No, but it's the

one thing because of the sheer

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cliff faces that are there where

you stand and, and watch them.

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It almost felt like they were

only like 30 or 40 meters away.

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They were, they came up really, really

close and it was a really good opportunity

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to sort of observe how they interact and,

and at the same time, it was ticking one

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of our bucket list holidays off the list.

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So that just made a little bit

more special, I think, too.

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Anthony Perl: Well, I wanna get

into some details of it all.

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I'm keen to hear about it all in

the context of the bucket list, but

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I have to ask one question as well.

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You know, you're standing there and

looking, as you say, it feels like

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they're only a short distance away.

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Do you get a concept of how big

and amazing these creatures are?

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David Patterson: Big and

amazing and, and just graceful.

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Like they're not fast movers through the

water, but they just sort of, they're

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in their environment and they're looking

after their calves at the same time.

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And to see that nurturing is probably

not the right word, but they're

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very protective of them and the

playfulness of the calves so close

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when they breach and all of the, like,

it's, it's something about whale.

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I think it's, you know, whales and

dolphin and marine life in general.

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It's really special when you can

get up close to them like that.

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Even when you're not as enthusiastic as

your wife might be, it's still a really

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special moment to be that close to them.

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Anthony Perl: I think what's really

interesting here is that, you know,

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firstly, you talk about the enthusiasm

of your wife versus your own, but

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then you know, that's the great thing

about any relationship, isn't it?

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The enthusiasm of one can rub

off on the other, and it's an

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important thing to acknowledge

when you're creating a bucket list.

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David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.

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As a couple, we certainly have mutual

interests, but we've also got sort of

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separate interests that we both have.

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And I mean, for me, I'd always,

well, when I say always, probably

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for the last 10 years have wanted

to get to the head of the bite.

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Just for me, it seems like an

iconic little part of Australia.

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And so when.

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Tammy kind of put the proposal to me

to say, Hey, how about we do this trip?

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'cause it's a lot of driving from

Warrnambool to the head of the bite, but

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it's the only way to really get there.

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So when she suggested Let's do it,

it was kinda like, yeah, absolutely.

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You know, it was, initially I thought

of it more of as a holiday for her, but

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as we started to plan it and book in

and have destinations along the way and

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destinations back, I mean, I've got as

much enjoyment out of it as she did.

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No doubt.

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But it did take some planning too.

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You know, like I said, it's a long

trip, so we had to make sure that

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there were destinations along the way

that we could stop at that and some

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attractions that we wanted to look at.

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So it wasn't a case of just

packing up the car and heading off.

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We certainly had a plan in mind where we

wanted to go and, and everything else.

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I

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Anthony Perl: think it's something that

people forget about when they're planning

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these sorts of things, is that it is

not just about the final destination.

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It is about the journey there and

the journey that begins in the

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planning phase, not just in the

actual, okay, we've got now, got

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the car packed and we're on our way.

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David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.

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And credit to Tammy, she did most

of the work on the itinerary, I

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guess, as to where we were going.

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But when you sit back and go,

let's go to the head of the buyer.

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That's great.

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I think it was about 1900 kilometers to

get there, and then:

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So it was important that we broke

that trip up as much as possible.

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So finding destinations along the

way that had points of interest

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for us as well was important.

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That took some planning and seeing where

things were and breaking up the trip so

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that we weren't sort of worn out by the

time we got to where we were going, and

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we got to see some stuff that we probably

didn't know existed along the way.

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So I think there was a, a windmill.

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You see him in one spot, which.

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I'd never heard of before and just,

yeah, just to experience the different

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scenery as well was pretty awesome.

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Anthony Perl: And it's interesting when

talk about that experience of:

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Ks there and back, because that can

be daunting and you can be thinking

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about, oh, I just wanna get there.

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And it's a bit like the flights

when you are going overseas, right?

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Particularly if you're going to Europe.

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It's a long time in the plane.

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How do you make the most of that

as part of it and, and make that

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part of the bucket list enjoyment,

not just, oh no, we've gotta sit

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in the car for how many hours?

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I don't know how many hours of

driving:

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David Patterson: It was a lot.

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And I, you know, I've spoken to a

few people about the trip and some

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people can, you know, drive for 11

hours in a day and get there a lot

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quicker than what, what we did.

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But it was just as important

for us to enjoy the.

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Journey as it was to

enjoy the destination.

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So, you know, we could have missed

a few sites that we saw that if we

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had to just put our head down and

driven, we would've missed out on.

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So, and just staying in different places

and different, experiencing different

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sort of areas, I think is just as

important as getting to where you want

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to get to and, and doing that part of it.

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And then just getting home again.

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I mean, the driving along there is long,

straight roads with the, the scenery

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changes a little bit, but it stays fairly

similar the, the whole way through.

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But at no point.

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Was I finding myself weary or just

wishing to get to where I was getting to

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was, was a matter of just enjoying the

what was around us and the difference

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to where we are and what we've got.

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So there was plenty of things

to see and do along the way.

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Anthony Perl: Yeah, I think it isn't it,

it's when you make that decision that you

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are having a holiday, make it something

where you can switch off and enjoy that.

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Part of the great thing about driving.

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Is that you don't have

time to worry about work.

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I mean, you know, yes.

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You could potentially get a phone call.

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Yeah.

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But it's not that easy

when you're driving.

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So particularly when you're driving

somewhere that you've never been before

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and that you're wanting to take in and

absorb the scenery along the way and plan

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where the next stop is for, you know,

even if it's just to get some lunch.

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Yep.

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That's part of the enjoyment of it all.

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And so I think that's an important aspect,

isn't it, of when you are creating, you

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know, a holiday as part of the bucket

list is you gotta make sure you can switch

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off, even if it means forcing yourself

to do it because you're in a car driving

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David Patterson: a hundred percent.

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I think the switching off is

really important to, to enable you

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to sort of be in, in the holiday

and just enjoying the holiday.

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And you're right.

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I was receiving a few phone calls

along the way, but I made a conscious

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decision not to answer calls as I was

driving along because, well, well, I

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was on holidays, so my message when

they went through to voicemail was set

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up so that they knew I was on holidays.

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I had all my sort of my email set up

so that when they sent an email, the

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response went back that I was on holidays.

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So I'd set everything up.

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That allowed people to understand that

while I didn't take their call, the

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reason I didn't take their call or answer

their email immediately was because I was

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on holidays and really wanted to enjoy

the fact that I was on holidays, the

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early days of running my own business.

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It would take me several days to

kind of wind into a holiday because

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I was sort of still stressing about

this and the other thing, and taking

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phone calls and answering emails.

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So I've made a conscious decision last

year in September, we went to Vietnam

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and it was a conscious decision.

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Again, I'd set everything up properly,

but my thing now is that if I'm going on

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holidays, I'm going to be on holidays.

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There might be some, a couple of

emergencies that pop up, but on the whole.

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Probably 98% of phone calls and emails

can wait for a week or two weeks.

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You know, it's not the end of the world.

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So since I've made that kind of

conscious decision to enjoy my holidays

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and my breaks, I've found it a lot

easier to switch off, and then when I

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get back, just switch back on again.

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So it's just allowed for a greater sense

of holiday, you know, so I'm not using

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the first two days to unwind and then the

last two days to sort of gear up again.

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I'm, I'm using the

whole period of time to.

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On the holiday.

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Now, back to the program.

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If you go to the effort of creating

a bucket list, whether it's a

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holiday over a few weeks, or whether

it's a, you know, a simple event.

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I know you, for example, you climbed

the Harbor Bridge as one of your

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bucket list things that we've talked

about before, and that might just

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be something that takes a few hours,

but you wanna be in that moment.

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You don't.

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Want it to be to outside influences,

to take away from that enjoyment

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of something you've worked towards.

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David Patterson: A hundred percent.

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And I, the, the Harbor Bridge climb in

particular, I actually put my phone onto

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airplane mode so that I couldn't get

disturbed while I was doing the walking.

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It, it certainly allowed me just

then to enjoy the climb, enjoy

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the scenery, and just sort of.

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Be present for the whole thing

without, you know, worrying about

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my phone buzzing in my pocket, or

out taking a photo and having a text

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message pop up or anything like that.

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It, it literally allowed me to just

really enjoy those two hours and then,

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you know, deal with, once you get back

off the bridge, take it off airplane mode

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and whatever's popped up, you can then

deal with it at time that's convenient

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for you, not the other way around.

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I

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Anthony Perl: wanna also ask

you about the planning phase for

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doing something like this trip.

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There's a lot of things to take

into consideration in terms of

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the financial aspect of it, right?

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It's, it's one thing, planning all of

the, the destinations, but there's.

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I imagine in a trip like this, there's

costs of maintenance for the car and

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making sure that you've, you know,

doing all the checks and balances before

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you head off on a journey like that.

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There's the petrol costs,

there's food costs along the way.

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There's accommodation costs along the way.

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Then there's.

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Tours and things and stuff that you

think, well, you didn't, you know,

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there's an unplanned element, isn't there?

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Because there's always something that

pops up and go, oh, I didn't know

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we could do this, so let's do this.

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You know?

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And that feeds into it as well.

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So there's quite a bit of planning that

needs to be involved in making sure that

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the experience that you're going to have

on something that you have put on a bucket

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list is going to be able to be fulfilled

with as maximum capacity as you can have.

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David Patterson: Oh, absolutely.

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And especially I guess on a triplo

we've just done where there's,

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there's a lot of nothing that's in

between stops in a lot of cases.

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So, you know, and you arrive

the cost of the cost of diesel,

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uh, as you're driving along.

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And a couple of times I've just had

to close my eyes and wait till it was

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filled and then just go and pay because

it just sort of, the numbers scare you

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a little bit, but, but it's all part

of the holiday, like you're saying.

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So we kind of mapped out early

on where we wanted to go.

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And got a feel for how

much accommodation was.

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And we did have to plan

for things like food.

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We stayed at a place called Fowlers Bay,

which is pretty isolated in those shops.

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I think it's got a population

of 16 permanent residents.

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So we had to get food and have the ability

to store it for four or five hours as

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we were getting to there from the place

where we picked up the, the food, we

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had the plan where we would stop for.

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Diesel so that we didn't

run out partway through.

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So we had a really good idea of how much

the trip was going to cost, and we had

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a good idea of that relatively early

so that, again, we're allowed to sort

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of put money aside to cover all that.

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And then to have money aside for

a couple of unexpected things

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that popped up along the way.

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We did a little 45 minute plane flight

when we were at the head of the bike,

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which we didn't know was an option.

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Um, I think we discovered that as, as

we were driving to the destination, but

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we'd factored in a little, a little.

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Pool of money for unexpected

events that we could do so.

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So we were able to take that 45 minute

fight without worrying about really

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worrying about how much it was going

to cost and just be able to enjoy it.

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So it just makes the trip as

an accountant from a financials

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perspective, a lot less stressful

because you know, before you head off

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that you've got everything covered.

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Anthony Perl: It is nothing worse

than being in a moment in a holiday

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and seeing something that you really

want to do and then realizing,

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Hmm, we didn't plan for this.

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What Yeah.

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You know, is So planning for the

unexpected is an important aspect of it.

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David Patterson: It is.

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You know, I think in the past

for us, we've had on a trip

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something that's popped up that's

unexpected, like the flight, but

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we haven't factored it in before.

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So.

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There's an element of crikey that's

costing a lot, can we afford it?

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Then doing it, but then while you're

doing it, you're still kind of

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stressing about how much it costs.

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So it takes away an element of the

enjoyment of the actual experience.

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Whereas this time and the trip to

Vietnam as well, you know, we kind

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of had this bucket of money that

we'd set aside for unexpected events,

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which then meant you could just do it.

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And enjoy it and not worry about the cost.

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You could just get in and enjoy it

and be part of it for the whole time.

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It just makes it more enjoyable.

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Anthony Perl: A message as well for

people listening is that you should be

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turning to someone like David to plan

these kinds of things and to realize

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that there are things like that, that you

know, you want to make sure that you're

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planning for the unplanned and you've

accommodated everything along the way

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so that you can achieve the bucket list

item and do it with maximum enjoyment.

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Make it something that you are talking

actively to your accountant about.

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David Patterson: Absolutely.

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And, and having a feel for the

types of things that you want to do.

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I mean, I've got a chalkboard in behind

me here, and it's, it's got our next four

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holiday destinations mapped out and the

times and dates that we want to take them.

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So, you know, we're starting to plan

well in advance because a couple of

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the trips are, um, fairly expensive,

but we're giving ourselves plenty

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of time to do some research on.

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How much it's going to cost, what

time of year we want to take it so

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that we can maximize the enjoyment

of the trip, but also give us plenty

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of time to be able to save for it.

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So, you know, we've set up a,

a separate holiday bank account

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and so money's going there every

week to build up for these trips.

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And then it's also gives us plenty

of time for sort of impromptu trips

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along the way if something pops up.

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But what it's doing is it's giving

us a really clear direction of.

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Where we want to go and what it's

going to take for us to get there

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and enough time to put steps in

place that allow us to do it.

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Anthony Perl: I love as well that

you've got it on the chalkboard and

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it doesn't mean you're rub it off

as soon as you've achieved one of

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the things, because you wanna bask

in that glory for some time to come.

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David Patterson: Yeah, absolutely.

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So the head of the bite's

up there and it's ticked.

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I haven't sort of made a decision

on when it's going to come off yet.

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You know, every morning when

you've come into the office

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and see that you've done it.

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It just puts smile on your face every day

when I'm popping in at the minute to work.

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So it'll probably stay

there for a little while.

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Anthony Perl: Now, just to wrap

up this discussion, there's one

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important thing that I have to ask.

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1900 Ks there and back.

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Lots of time in the car.

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What's on the playlist?

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David Patterson: What's on the play?

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Well, that's an interesting,

we didn't have anything.

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We didn't play radio.

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We didn't play music.

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There was four of us in the car

and there was just no music at all.

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If there was large moments of silence,

um, the people in the back kind of

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had to put their own kind of music on.

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I did all the driving, which was a

conscious decision 'cause it gave

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me much more leg room and space.

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But it was just about taking in

the scenery and the destination.

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So normally we would music on

the radio on all the time, you

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know, driving to Melbourne.

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But it just kind of felt right that we

didn't have anything and we were just

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sort of seeing what was around us.

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Anthony Perl: Truth is David, the

kids in the back, they were listening

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to the Bucket List Accountants

podcast on repeat continuously.

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David Patterson: Well, that's, no, I guess

that's, that's what it should have been.

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Maybe, maybe from next trip to, uh, Japan

next year, I might grab 'em all and put

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'em on a loop and, and get Tammy to listen

to them all as we're traveling around.

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Anthony Perl: Well in that case, if

you are listing in Tammy to this one,

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very nice to have shared a bit of the

memory of this particular trip and

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I hope you're enjoying the next one.

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So, David, thanks for this.

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I think it was a great insight into

this particular holiday and what ticking

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off a bucket list item is all about.

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David Patterson: Brilliant.

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Thanks for allowing me to share too.

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Anthony Perl: The Bucket List

Accountant Podcast is brought to

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you by David Patterson and his

team at Bucket List Accountant.

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Go and visit their website

for more information details,

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of course, in the show notes.

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I'm Anthony Peel, your host

from podcast Done for You.

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We look forward to having your

company in the next episode.

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About the Podcast

The Bucket List Accountant
For Small Business Owners Looking to Achieve Work and Life Goals
The Bucketlist Accountant helps you bridge the gap between financial security and chasing epic dreams. Join David Patterson, a certified financial expert passionate about living life to the fullest, as he cracks the code on managing your money for your present and future.
David is an accountant with a difference. He combines the concept of bucket lists for your personal and professional life. For small business owners in particular, he examines the business and how it impacts you and your family.

David Patterson is the Bucket List Accountant: https://www.bucketlistaccountant.com.au/

Produced by Podcasts Done For You: https://www.commtogether.com.au/podcasts-done-for-you/

About your host

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Anthony Perl

Anthony is an engagement specialist, building a great catalogue of podcasts of his own and helping others get it done for them. Anthony has spent more than 30 years building brands and growing audiences. His experience includes working in the media (2UE, 2GB, Channel Ten, among others) to working in the corporate and not-for-profit sectors, and for the last 13 years as a small business owner with CommTogether. The business covers branding to websites - all things strategic around marketing. Now podcasts have become central to his business, finding a niche in helping people publish their own, making it easy.