Episode 28

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Published on:

13th May 2026

Engineering Your Business for Your Bucket List

Most business owners are running a race without a finish line. They take on every client, chase every lead, and manage

every fire, only to realise they are further away from their personal dreams than when they started. This episode uncovers

how to stop the cycle of reactive business management and start engineering a business that actually funds your bucket list.

David Patterson breaks down the psychological and practical barriers that keep entrepreneurs stuck in the grind. From the

paralysing effects of FOMO to the difficulty of having honest conversations with team members, we explore how to align

your professional vehicle with your personal destination. It is about moving beyond the balance sheet to create a life of

purpose and fulfilment.

What You Will Learn:

• Why saying no to lucrative opportunities is often the best move for your long term growth

• How to use quarterly planning to reverse engineer your personal bucket list into business milestones

• What steps to take when a team member's values no longer align with your business vision

• Why the fear of missing out is the biggest threat to your lifestyle business

• How to facilitate daunting but necessary conversations with your staff about your dreams

Notable Quotes:

• There is nothing wrong with passing up on opportunities that do not fit in with what you are trying to achieve.

• The more you can involve your team in what your business goals are, the better chance you have got of achieving them.

• Your business should be the vehicle for your ultimate lifestyle.

• Tough decisions are easier to make if you have a clear understanding of why you are making them.

Key Takeaways:

• Business and personal goals are inextricably linked and must be planned together

• Quarterly reviews aligned with your BAS are the perfect time to check your progress toward bucket list items

• A cohesive team requires total transparency regarding the owner's vision and values

• Engineering a business is not a straight line, but a clear goal makes the downs easier to navigate

Download the episode workbook at bucketlistaccountant.com.au or via the link in these show notes to start your engineering

process.

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Co-host: Anthony Perl

Produced by: 'Podcasts Done for You'

Transcript
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Engineering your business for your bucket list.

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Join the bucket list accountant

himself, David Paterson, as we

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explore how to align your professional

goals with your personal dreams.

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Learn why saying no to the wrong

opportunities is vital for growth.

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Discover the power of reverse

engineering your business milestones

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through quarterly planning, and gain

insights into facilitating honest

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conversations about your vision

to avoid the fear of missing out.

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This episode provides a practical

framework for ensuring your

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business serves as the vehicle

for your ultimate lifestyle.

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I'm your co-host Anthony Pearl.

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Let's get into making

your bucket list happen.

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David, your bucket list for your

business, how do you fund it?

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How do you frame it so you can fund it?

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How do you work out what the

bucket list is for the business?

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Because it can be tied to your

personal goals, but the business

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itself is its own entity.

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David Patterson: Oh, a- absolutely.

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And as important as it is to have your

personal goals, I mean, it's just as

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important to have your business goals as

well, because they're very closely linked

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and tied together, those two things.

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So you need to have an understanding

of your business goals and how you're

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gonna achieve them so that you can

work towards them, so that you can

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tick them off, so that then you can

start ticking off your personal goals.

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So it's, uh, each one are

as important as the other.

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Anthony Perl: And I think to your

point, it's really about the business.

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Ultimately, you're in it so that

it's gonna fund your personal goals.

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So whilst the business needs to have

its own goals and you need to be aware

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of that and moving that, ultimately,

it does need to be tied back because

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at the end of the day, why do we work?

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Well, we work because we love it and

we enjoy giving back, and that should

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always be a central focus of a business.

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But ultimately, we work because

it then affords us to be able to

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do the things that we want to do,

hence your personal bucket list.

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David Patterson: 100%.

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100%.

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So it's just as important to

have those business goals.

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And again, having the breakdown of those

so that they can be achieved, you know?

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There's little pockets.

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And quarterly's really great

'cause it t- ties in with a BAS.

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So you can sit down and meet every

quarter, your bookwork's up to date.

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You can kind of see where you're

at, kind of s- see how you're going

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towards achieving the goals that

you're setting s- out for yourself,

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so you're not caught down the track

and, and miss out on something because

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you haven't been planning towards it.

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Anthony Perl: So how do you make sure

that your business is still firing

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to help with those personal goals?

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Because if it is the business that's

just you in it or maybe one or two

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others, that's not so difficult.

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But as the business tends to grow and

opportunities might come in front of you-

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You have to measure that against your

personal goals, and I guess some of that

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is, is things that we've talked about in

previous episodes, where your bus- y- your

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goal for your business may not be to be

a multinational business that's turning

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over hundreds of millions of dollars.

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It might be on a smaller scale, and

so there are opportunities you might

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say no to because you don't want it

to go down that path, because your

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personal goals draw you back in.

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So, how do you make sure that

things are aligned, and that you

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are achieving those personal goals?

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David Patterson: I think the most

important aspect of this, and it's

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a good point you make, i- i- is, is

having that clear understanding of

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what your business goals are and what

your personal goals are, and when one

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of these opportunities come up, do

they fit in to achieving these goals?

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And there's a lot of cases where people

have this FOMO, so fear of missing out.

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So, if this opportunity comes

along that looks fantastic,

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unless it fits in with your philosophy

and your goals and what you're trying

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to achieve, if you're trying to force

that into your business because you

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think it's an opportunity that you can't

miss out on, it can cause more damage

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than benefit if it's not aligned with

what it is you're trying to achieve.

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And there's nothing wrong with passing

up on opportunities that don't fit in

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with what you're trying to achieve.

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Anthony Perl: Yeah, I know.

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I think that's an

important aspect, isn't it?

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That if the personal bucket list is

aligned with the professional bucket

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list, then that shouldn't be an issue.

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It should give you a clear

course of what the actions are.

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Whether it's investing more, or

deciding not to do something, or

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deciding you should do something, they

need to be aligned with one another.

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And people that are working in the

business with you need to be aware of

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that as well, because that can develop

a degree of frustration if someone

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thinks, "Oh, there's a really great

opportunity and you could do this,

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this, and this," but you realize that's

not aligned with what you want to do.

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That's going to have some clashes.

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So, how important is it that not only your

own bucket list, but, and your personal

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bucket list, but the bucket list of those

people that are working in the business,

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and the general values are all aligned?

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David Patterson: Oh,

it's extremely important.

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I think it's to share with the whole

team what your goals are, and, and even

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from the business owner having an idea

of what the goals of their team are.

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It's all important, and it all works

towards creating a cohesive unit that

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all knows what they're working for,

what they're trying to achieve, and,

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and they can all then understand that-

You know, th- this potential opportunity

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that's out on the side, whilst it might

look good, doesn't align with what

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we're all trying to achieve, doesn't

align with the values of what we're

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looking at, and it's just one of those

opportunities that pop up from time to

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time that you just have to let pass.

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But you're right, if, if you haven't

shared the, your values of, or your goals

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of what you want the business to achieve,

people within your team may be looking

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at this opportunity and saying, "We need

to get this in, we need to get this in,"

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and then don't understand why you say no.

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You, you need that kind of alignment

with everyone so that you can

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work as best as you possibly can.

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Anthony Perl: So in terms of doing

that, how difficult, easy is it to

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facilitate that kind of a conversation?

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And indeed, is that something that

you're facilitating as well in some

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way, whether directly sitting down with

them or, or indirectly encouraging them

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and, and teaching them how to do that?

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David Patterson: Yeah.

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Well, it depends on how inclusive

they've been in the past as to how

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difficult that conversation is.

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If they've never had the conversation with

their team, it can be a little daunting

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at times, because you're kind of opening

yourself up to say, "Here are the dreams

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and goals that I've got for my business."

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Can open you up for being judged

and comments and everything else.

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But I think the hardest part is to start

the conversation, and that's where I can

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join in and sort of be that person in

the middle just to facilitate the thing

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to say, "Well, this is where we're at.

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Here are the goals of the business

owner," and start to have the conversation

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with the team as well to get a feel

for what their goals are as well.

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Now, sometimes these conversations

will end up in people that are

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currently working for you not working

for you anymore, because they realize

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and understand that their goals and

values aren't aligned, which is fine.

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There'll be someone else out there whose

goals and values are aligned with what

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you're trying to achieve, and ultimately

you'll end up in a better place.

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So there, there can be difficult

conversations, but at the end of

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the day, that difficult conversation

can quite often turn out to be the

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best conversation for both parties.

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So the more you can involve your

team in what your business goals

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are, the better chance you've

got of achieving them, I think.

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Anthony Perl: I think, you know,

that is a conversation that needs

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to be had on a regular basis.

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Obviously, you want to ideally

have that conversation before they

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start in that particular case.

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Yep.

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But it is important that everyone's on

the same page as to where the business

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is going and what it's trying to

achieve, because there is a world of

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difference between a lifestyle business,

between something that wants to become

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a franchise, something that wants to

become a global enterprise, something

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that wants to buy a bunch of other

businesses and go off and do other things.

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Like, there's so many possibilities

and opportunities that you can find

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yourself in business And indeed,

it's very easy to find yourself with

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another business within the business

that you didn't realize you had until

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you start working on these things.

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And then all of that has to

come back to this is, is it

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achieving what you want it to do?

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And I think then it leads to how

you actually engineer it so it does

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achieve what you want it to do.

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David Patterson: Ab- absolutely.

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And it also helps with explanations

as to why things are done or

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maybe things aren't done, too.

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When everyone understands the clear

goals and purpose of the business,

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it allows them to get a greater

understanding of decisions that are

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made and why those decisions are made.

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Um, rather than just saying, "Well,

you know, this is the decision I've

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made and that's it," i- it's, "We've

made this decision because it helps

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us do these things that are the

goals that we're trying to achieve."

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And, and you're right with all the

someone coming into your business as

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a team member may have these grand

visions of working their way through

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and having ownership or moving on or b-

building this bigger empire themselves.

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So if they're knowing the goals and

the values and the objectives of

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the business right from the start,

it, it makes it a lot easier to

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either employ or not employ or...

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And for the person coming in to say,

"This business is not quite for me."

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So having those goals clearly

outlined just makes for a smoother

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operation in the business.

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Anthony Perl: Hey, everyone.

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Just a reminder, check out the show notes.

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There is lots of information in there,

including a link you can click on to

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download a workbook from this episode,

dedicated to just this episode, and

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it will have information about all

of the tips and tricks that David has

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given in the episode, things for you

to fill in and think about so you are

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on your journey for your bucket list,

action steps, as well as some key

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takeaways and quotes from the episode.

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So you don't wanna miss that one.

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Please go and check it

out in the show notes.

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A reminder again at the end of the

episode, but it's one not to miss.

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David Patterson:

Engineering is an easy term

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Anthony Perl: to kind of throw

away, but engineering itself

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is a difficult piece of work.

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It's why it's such a specialized

area when you talk about actual,

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you know, electrical engineers,

mechanical engineers, et cetera.

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A- and I think that's an

important aspect as well.

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Actually engineering your business to

achieve what you want it to achieve

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is not a straightforward task, and

you can get pushed and pulled in lots

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of directions by people who might

be mentors and advisors and things.

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But at the end of the day, having that

frank conversation on a financial level

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and understanding where that's going to

go tied emotionally is the heart of what

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you need to be doing, and that's where

the real conversations need to happen

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David Patterson: 100%.

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I mean, we- we've probably

all seen the graphs here.

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A business is not a smooth

line from here to there.

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There's ups and downs and ups and

downs and ups all the way through.

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It's, it's certainly not a, a

simple process all the way through.

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But when you're having the downs, if you

have a understanding of what you're trying

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to achieve and the reason you're trying

to achieve those, it makes it a little

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easier to work through the tougher times.

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Because you know that if we can get

through these tougher times, the outcome

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and the goal that you get is worth it.

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You know, you've got this personal element

that you're trying to work towards.

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Whereas if you don't have that and

you're not aligned, when you have the

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tough times, that's when it tends to

fracture and fall apart a little bit.

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If you've got the clear understanding

of what you're h- trying to achieve,

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you can dig in a little bit more in the

tough times because you know that once

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we get through this bit, it's worth it.

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You know, the outcome makes it worth

it, because you know what that outcome's

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gonna be if you can get through it.

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Anthony Perl: Yeah.

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And I think that kind of idea of seeing

the future and thinking about and having

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those frank conversations with the

business owner, with yourself, and looking

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at where you are and, and understanding

what are the tough decisions that you

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might need to make along the way to make

sure that you actually are going to get

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there, 'cause it's rarely in business a

smooth straight line point A to point B.

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David Patterson: Correct.

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And I guess the tough decisions

when you don't have a clear

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direction, they're harder to make.

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The dec- the tough decisions, they're

not easy to make, but they're easier

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to make if you have a, a, a clear

understanding of why you're doing it.

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"I'm making this decision now because this

is gonna help me do these other things,

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which will help me do this," you know?

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Whereas without that clear outcome,

the tough decision is a tough

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decision, but you don't fully

understand why you're making it or

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the purpose of why you're making it.

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Anthony Perl: So give me some stories

here, David, because I know you've

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worked with lots of businesses,

but in a practical sense, how does

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this play out with some businesses?

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'Cause there's, there's the good

and the bad side of how this might

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be working through, because as we

alluded to, there's the engineering

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stuff where there is the hard stuff

and there's the engineering where you

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see the end result, and it, it's worth

the hard yards that you've had to do.

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So give us some of your favorite stories

of things of how that's happened.

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David Patterson: I think the one in

particular, and I've referenced this

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one before, a business owner who

was really stuck, lot of debt, a lot

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of problems with team members, just

not knowing where or what decision

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to make to help free them up.

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And that was causing- so much stress that

they couldn't make a rational decision.

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So the, well, what we've done is,

or, I mean, this is a while back now,

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but we were able to sit down, and

'cause they didn't have a clear goal

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of what they were trying to achieve.

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So we actually sat down, and the first

thing we did was say, "Okay, let's

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forget about the business for a minute.

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Let's have a talk about what it is that

you want to achieve, what the goals are

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that you wanna do," and we got those down.

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Then with those personal goals in mind,

we went back into the business and said,

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"Okay, what are the things that are in

here that are gonna stop and block and

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hinder you from achieving those goals?"

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At that point in time, there was

one team member in particular

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who was blocking at every move.

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You know, "That won't work 'cause of this.

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That won't work 'cause of this."

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So the client sat down with the entire

team and said, "Right, here's what

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we're trying to achieve in the business.

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Here's what I wanna do.

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Here's my vision, and I wanna get the

business from this point to this point.

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And if we can do that, kind

of everyone's a winner."

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And this person, the team

member, was still kind of

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going, "This is not gonna work.

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That's not gonna work."

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We were able to then have this

conversation, and the business owner

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came to the realization that we

need to move this team member on.

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And they were able to do that in a more,

a less stressful, it was still stressful,

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but a less stressful way because they

knew that removing this team member was

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gonna free the rest of the business up to

able to get to where they wanted to go.

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Before, when they didn't know the

direction they were going in and

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just sort of doing their work,

doing their work, doing their work,

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the decision was just too hard to

make because they didn't have a reason

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why they had to make it, you know?

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So i- it's, it was just a good example

from my perspective of the importance

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of knowing why you're in business w- and

what you're wanting to achieve out of

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it in the long run, and the short run.

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Anthony Perl: I suppose we should kind of

wrap this conversation up by saying, are

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there some particular steps in an overall

sense that we can give people as tips

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to start taking to start thinking about

this and putting some actions in place

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to start this process of engineering it?

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David Patterson: Yeah, there is.

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The first step is stopping, thinking,

taking some time out, or spend a Saturday

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or a Sunday or, and having a think about

where you want the business to get to, and

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why you want the business to get there.

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They're the two most important

elements that you need to do first.

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Once you get those two bits in place,

then you can reverse engineer and go,

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"Okay, well, what are the things that

I need to start to do so that I can

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get there at a certain point in time?"

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Reverse engineering it, and then breaking

that part down even further so that it

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becomes- smaller manageable chunks so

that you know that, okay, I take this

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step, then I take this step, then I take

this step, and then I take this step.

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And you know that you're heading

down the path that you wanna head

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because you've worked out what

the end goal needs to look like.

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I think if you haven't got that,

you don't know whether you're making

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the steps in the right direction.

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So that's step number one, is to have

the ultimate goal written down and having

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a clear understanding of what that is.

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Anthony Perl: The Bucket List

Accountant podcast is brought to

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you by David Patterson and his

team at Bucket List Accountant.

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Go and visit their website

for more information.

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Details, of course, in the show notes.

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I'm Anthony Pearl, your host

from Podcast Done For You.

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We look forward to having your

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About the Podcast

The Bucket List Accountant
For Small Business Owners Looking to Achieve Work and Life Goals
The Bucketlist Accountant helps you bridge the gap between financial security and chasing epic dreams. Join David Patterson, a certified financial expert passionate about living life to the fullest, as he cracks the code on managing your money for your present and future.
David is an accountant with a difference. He combines the concept of bucket lists for your personal and professional life. For small business owners in particular, he examines the business and how it impacts you and your family.

David Patterson is the Bucket List Accountant: https://www.bucketlistaccountant.com.au/

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Anthony is an engagement specialist, building a great catalogue of podcasts of his own and helping others get it done for them. Anthony has spent more than 30 years building brands and growing audiences. His experience includes working in the media (2UE, 2GB, Channel Ten, among others) to working in the corporate and not-for-profit sectors, and for the last 13 years as a small business owner with CommTogether. The business covers branding to websites - all things strategic around marketing. Now podcasts have become central to his business, finding a niche in helping people publish their own, making it easy.